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Safe Through Knowledge
A practical, compassionate guide to protecting children from the people they already trust. Awareness, prevention and action — for parents, teachers, social workers and faith leaders.
Coming SoonOur Motto
Safe Through Knowledge
Prevention starts with knowing what to do.
Mission
To prevent harm by equipping children and the elderly across Africa and the world with simple, clear safety knowledge in an "I" voice. We empower every person to recognize danger early, trust their instincts, set boundaries, and know how to get help — at home, in community, and online.
Aim
A world where children and elders use safety knowledge daily to protect themselves and each other.
Most abusers are not strangers.
They are family members, teachers, coaches, faith leaders and neighbours — trusted adults hiding in plain sight. This book and safenetsa's resources help communities shift from fear of strangers to awareness of behaviour, so prevention starts before harm.
Child abuse in South Africa
The scale of the problem — and why awareness matters.
1 in 3
South African children experience some form of sexual abuse before age 17.
Source: Optimus Foundation / UCT study, 2016
~45,000+
Sexual offences reported by SAPS annually, with children among the most affected.
Source: SAPS Annual Crime Statistics
9 in 10
Child sexual abuse cases involve a perpetrator known to the child.
Source: UNICEF / Childline SA
Access Resources
Free guides, conversation starters and reporting checklists for South Africa.
Browse resourcesWhat this work stands for
Prevention
Equipping adults and children with the language and tools to stop abuse before it starts.
Awareness
Naming grooming tactics, power dynamics and warning signs that hide in plain sight.
Community
Building safer homes, schools, churches and programs where children are heard.